FUNERAL SERMON
for Phil May
d. Dec. 5, 2005; pr. Dec. 9, 2005
Text: Isaiah 25
The prophet Isaiah declares that God,
the Lord of hosts, has in store for all people a feast, a rich and sumptuous
feast, at which the veil that is cast over every nation shall be destroyed, and
death swallowed up forever, and tears wiped away from all faces.
As an ordained pastor of the Church,
Phil May presided often at the Eucharistic foretaste of this great and promised
feast to come. At this very table Pastor
May bid the people of God to lift up their hearts in anticipation of that rich
and sumptuous feast that God holds in store for all people. And from the offering of bread and wine
placed upon this table, Pastor May pressed into the hands of God’s people a
foretaste of the bounty that waits for them, waits for us, at the great banquet
where tears will be wiped away from all faces and death swallowed up forever.
As an ordained Lutheran pastor, Phil May often presided at the Eucharist according
to the liturgy of the Lutheran Book of Worship, in which the presiding minister
prays, “For as often as we eat of this bread and drink from this cup we
proclaim the Lord’s death . . . ,” quoting the words of St. Paul from the
eleventh chapter of First Corinthians. Of
course, the quoted words in the Eucharistic prayer continue and conclude with the phrase, “until
he comes”; “we proclaim the Lord’s death until he comes.” But let us not rush too quickly from the
Lord’s death to the Lord’s coming. At
the Eucharistic table we do indeed anticipate the Lord’s coming, but we also
proclaim the Lord’s death. Every time
Pastor May presided at the Eucharistic table, according to this liturgy in the
Lutheran Book of Worship, he led the people of God in proclaiming the Lord’s
death.
Why exactly this proclamation, concerning the Lord’s death? The faith of the Church understands that the
real host of the Eucharist is the risen Lord, the living Lord, the one
who—according to
The answer to that question must, of
course, be no—emphatically and firmly
and insistently no. To understand why the answer to that question
must be no we have only to consider the
grief that fills our hearts on a day such as this, when we have come together
for the funeral of this man we have loved.
We have only to consider, especially, the grief of his wife Narice and
his sons Daniel and Timothy.
Let us make no mistake and let us
harbor no illusions about death. Death
itself is no illusion; it is a terrible reality. And the reality of death contains no hidden
goodness, no hidden consolation. To
quote
Death, the enemy, has now taken from
us a beloved pastor and a brother in Christ.
Death, the enemy, has taken from Phil the life he cherished in God’s
good world, especially the life he cherished as a partner to Narice and a
parent to Daniel and Timothy. Death, the
enemy, has taken from Narice her helpmeet, and from Dan and Tim their
father. Let us not be fools or cowards,
who would seek to appease this terrible enemy by pretending it has any good
gifts or good intentions for us. Death
has nothing good to give us, and intends only our destruction. Death is not our friend.
But the Lord is. And that is why we must
proclaim the Lord’s death. For thus we
proclaim that our friend has met our enemy.
The one who intends every good thing for us has met the one who seeks to
take it all from us. And not only met,
but conquered. Yet again the words of
And so shall we continue to proclaim
the Lord’s death . . . until he comes. Pastor May led the people of God in praying
those words too at the Eucharistic foretaste of the great and promised
feast. We proclaim the Lord’s death until he comes. We anticipate what we cannot yet see: the
coming of the Lord who has dominion over death and who takes back from death
everything—and everyone—that death takes from us. Until the Lord comes, we must continue to
proclaim his death—because, for the time being, death is the reality we can
see, while the coming of Christ is the promise we can only anticipate.
That distinction between what we see
and what we anticipate is part of the veil of which Isaiah speaks, the veil
that is spread over all nations and cast over all peoples. It is the veil that still separates, for the
present age, the Lord’s death and the Lord’s coming. This is the same veil that now separates us
and Phil.
But when the Lord comes, the veil
will be destroyed; then death will be swallowed up forever, and the Lord will
wipe away all tears from the faces of his people. Then the foretaste will give way to the
feast. We have known Phil May as a
pastor in our Eucharistic foretaste; then we will know him, we will join him,
as a guest at the great and promised feast.
Until then we proclaim the Lord’s
death. Until the Lord comes, we proclaim
the Lord’s death. And we confess the
mystery of our faith (join me now), saying, Christ has died, Christ is risen,
Christ will come again. Amen. Come, Lord Jesus.